Cesar's Way

I read a book a few weeks ago that I really, really ought to return. It's Cesar's way: The Natural, Everyday Guide to Understanding & Correcting Common Dog Problems. So, I'm writing a little about it now—pointing out some things that impressed me.

• His whole life story. How his humble, honest background set him up perfectly for his success later. It gives me hope for myself.
• The concept he calls "energy." How we carry and project ourselves is invisible but very perceptible by others, and naturally and unconsciously affects every relationship we have.
• "Calm-assertive" leadership. Know when and where you're going, and expect your "pack" to follow.
• The formula for success: Exercise, discipline, affection. In that order. 2:1:1 ratios.

There's more. So, I think I need to own this book. I'll be studying it for a long time, I'm sure.

One more thing: relating to my study of work, this quote from Cesar really meant something to me:

[A] canine pack leader won't directly reward [the pack members'] behavior. He won't turn around and say, "Gee, guys, thanks for following me for ten miles." It's expected that they do that! A mother dog won't say, "You know, you pups have behaved so well today. Let's go to the beach!" In their natural world, the reward is in the process. (That's a concept we humans could sometimes do well to remember.) For a dog there's a reward for simply fitting in with the pack and helping ensure it's survival. [pg. 129]

I'm still studying. I'll share more as I learn.

I Enjoy Fun at Work

As I applied for a position this week, I came across this question:

Do you enjoy having fun at work?

__ Always

__ Sometimes

__ Never

As always, I reflected carefully before answering. I have had "fun at work" before. I have had the opposite of "fun at work" before. Which did I enjoy most? "Fun at work." How frequently did I find "fun at work" unenjoyable? I can't recall a single "fun" incident as something I didn't enjoy.

So, after much reflection, I marked "Always." Hopefully, the employer won't see me as too frivolous—actually enjoying my work-fun—and pass me by. I'd keep it under control.

How I Write Such Good Posts

Sometimes, I want to write about great things—really impress people. Express my ideas with the latest catchphrase. Use big words.

But then I start thinking about what Bruce wants to read. And I go for the simple approach.

Or, steal shamelessly from others.